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Kevin Touhey Writes New Book “The Agony of Winning”

6.7.10 | Football

Temple’s Al Golden Wrote the Foreward

PHILADELPHIA  – Motivational author and speaker Kevin Touhey has written a new book, The Agony of Winning, with the foreward written by Temple head football coach Al Golden. The book will be released on July 9.

Touhey, who will speak to the Temple football team for the first time this week, read about the changes within the Temple football program over the last four seasons, did research, and decided to write about it. With mirroring philosophies, Touhey then invited Golden to write the book's foreward.

The Agony of Winning: “Seven Strategies for Winning Bigger with Greater Freedom, Spirit and Integrity” provides useful anecdotes of how coaches and parents can make athletics fun again. The essence of training, preparation, skill development, and pushing yourself should provide enjoyment and personal fulfillment. Touhey steadfastly believes that this feeling needs to be restored into organized sport and needs to commence at the youth level. The essence of competition itself is in reality fun.

The Agony of Winning helps parents, coaches, and players rediscover the spirit of sport and its core values. Touhey writes about how core values need to be re-introduced as the focal point in athletics. The book provides seven strategies that lay the ground work for more cooperation, values-based teachings for all those involved in athletic endeavors, whether that is as a player, coach or parent. Beginning with the introduction of athletics, young people need to understand respect for the game, their teammates, coaches, and officials, and how to make learning and competition fun once again.

From Al Golden's foreword:
“Inside The Agony of Winning, Kevin Touhey lays out comprehensive strategies for coaches, players and parents, who perhaps serve as the greatest challenge facing youth sport in the 21st Century. Coach Touhey's approach ensures that critical life lessons are not lost amidst the competitive nature of sport and remain the central theme of youth instruction.”

Readers can take advantage of a pre-publication 10 percent discount by ordering the book online at www.theagonyofwinning.com.



About Kevin Touhey

Motivational and inspirational author, speaker, and workshop facilitator Kevin Touhey has been considered an underdog for most of his life. Born in Passaic, N.J., and currently residing in Medford, N.J., Touhey grew up in abject poverty along with nine brothers and sisters. His father held over 50 jobs, spending a period of three years totally unemployed.

Touhey attended six different grammar schools by the time he was in the 5th grade and lived in eight different homes by the time he was 10. According to family psychologists and addiction experts, this is the profile of someone who usually ends up addicted and institutionalized. This is not the profile of a scholarship college basketball player, successful author, Hall of Fame college basketball coach, inspirational workshop facilitator, and highly sought after speaker and life coach. Touhey has been defying the underdog label since day one.

The, "you will never pull this off" comment was one Touhey heard often when he decided to write and launch a campaign to market his first book. He once again defied the odds like he had done all his live.

Touhey's first book, The Miracle of Optimism, became available on Amazon.com on January 22, 2008. At the end of the day, this new book from a previously unknown author, finished at #2 on the “Amazon.com Hot New Releases” book chart and #3 in Nation Wide Personal Transformation releases. This new book defied the odds and shot straight to the top, much like Touhey's previous career as a college basketball coach and current career as an inspirational author, speaker and workshop facilitator

Touhey has been working with students, athletes, coaches, educators, and high-level business leaders and their employees for over 30 years. He has been a highly successful collegiate athletic director, basketball coach, and student life director at a number of colleges, as well as a certified Life Coach for over 14 years.

In his new book, The Agony of Winning, Touhey provides 7 Strategies for parents, players and coaches can employ to assure winning with integrity and leadership. As Al Golden at Temple University puts it, “Kevin Touhey illustrates how attitudes, optimism, and life skill development translate into success for coaches, players and parents while not requiring one to sacrifice winning.”

Understanding his background, his career is that much more fascinating. Touhey was the head junior varsity coach and assistant varsity coach of the University of Pennsylvania's basketball team from 1985 to 1988. He was Director of Athletics, head varsity coach, and Director of Student Activities at Mount Mercy College in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, from 1979 to 1985. He served as assistant director of student activities and assistant basketball coach at Cortland State University from 1977 to 1979. Additionally, Touhey was Director of Community Education in Wharton, N.J., from 1975 to 1977.

Touhey received a bachelor's degree in recreation administration from Kean University of New Jersey in 1974 and a master's in sports management from Cortland State University of New York in 1978. He is accredited in Business and Personal Coaching through Coach University of Houston and Energy Management and Physiology through The Heartmath Institute in California. Touhey is also a New Jersey Development Provider, allowing him to educate high school teachers who need subsequent learning.

Touhey has served as an inspirational optimistic author, speaker and workshop facilitator since 1993. He has conducted workshops, speeches, and individual coaching sessions for professionals -- teachers, administrators, athletic department staff, and business leaders - as well as high school and college students.

Touhey was elected to the Hall of Fame at Mount Mercy in 1990.

For more information, visit Touhey's website at: www.thepivot2.com

Click here to read Golden's foreward.

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